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12 Best Gay Sex Positions: Tips, Tricks, Precautions & More

Looking for the best gay sex positions? Or wondering how to have gay sex? Get to know the best sex positions, gay sex tips, precautions, and much more. Let's dive straight into it.


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12 Best Gay Sex Positions: Tips, Tricks, Precautions & More


Here are some of the most pleasurable sex positions for gay couples. These are sure to spice up your sex life.

Doggie Style - A gay sex position

This position is ideal for excellent, thrusting anal sex. The best part about this gay male sex position is that the angle offers easy and deeper penetration.

How To Do It

Here, the passive partner lies on all fours, with the backside facing the partner's penis. The other partner takes him from behind. In this position, the bottom kneels on all fours while the top enters him anally from behind. This position never gets boring. However, if you need variety, the top can always pull the bottom towards him by the hips for deeper penetration.

Another variation of this position you can try is the flat doggie.

Precautions: Be careful as too much vigorous activity may result in penile fracture.

Missionary Style to have gay sex

The Missionary position can also be fun for gay couples, with a bit of tweak. It is one of the best gay sex poses, offering great ease, gentleness, and intimacy during sex if done correctly with sufficient lube. One stimulates the prostate at the same time as the tip of the penis. If you think this position is boring when it comes to gay sex- think again.

How To Do It

The bottom partner will have to tilt more upwards than the usual position. This will offer easy penetration, especially if the active partner has the other partner's legs on his shoulder.

This position ensures you are face-to-face with your partner, allowing for greater intensity and communication during sexual intercourse.

Tips: Both partners can enjoy this position, especially when neck kissing and nipple play are included.

Also read: Here's Why You Should Use Dotted Condoms!

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Spooning- a great gay sex position

‌‌This gay position of sex offers easy access and skin-to-skin contact for both partners. Not only this, the big spoon has access to the chest, nipples, and penis of the little spoon. This ensures a heightened sexual experience due to greater stimulation.

The little spoon can also feel free to stroke the big spoon's penis from time to time in between sex for variation and excitement.

‌‌How To Do It

Here, the partners lay on their side. The active partner is on the outside, penetrating his partner from behind. The passive partner can adjust his leg position to offer deeper penetration.

‌‌Tips: Decreasing or increasing your spoon will help adjust the pelvis, minimizing discomfort and maximizing pleasure.

‌‌Precaution: Active partner should place his arm under the pillow to prevent a sleeping arm.

PuKnee Up for man to man sex

‌‌This position offers maximum anal exposure and deep penetration. The bottom can lie down on any flat surface and get comfortable by relaxing the muscles before performing. Make sure to engage in plenty of foreplay before performing this position.

‌‌How To Do It

The passive partner lies on his back, and the other partner can grasp the partner's calves, knees, or ankles while standing. The active partner then pushes the passive partner's leg towards the chest while inserting his penis.

A variation in this position is that the bottom remains in his position while the top penetrates him

‌‌Tips: The more the legs get pushed, the better the pleasure.

Back It In/Bottom Power Up while having gay sex

‌‌In this position, the bottom gets to be active too. It also requires the use of a chair. It is up to the bottom to create all the momentum and thrust during this position.

How To Do It‌‌

Here the active partner sits on a chair pulling his knees towards his chest. The other partner backs into the position, allowing his partner to penetrate.

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Cliff Driver- one of the best gay sex positions

‌‌The position offers excellent intimacy. This position makes sure you can dive into your partner like never before. One needs proper protection and lubrication for this position.

How To Do It

  • The passive partner gets on all fours. The other partner penetrates from behind.
  • The active partner stands and lifts his partner by the waist or thigh. The active partner now wraps his partner's leg around him and penetrates.

See-Saw/Waterfall Gay sex position

‌‌This position is ideal for couples who don't mind a little extra effort or work out while having gay anal sex. Another position that requires the use of a chair. We recommend you don't jump to this position if you or your partner are beginners. However, if you do feel particularly adventurous, who are we to stop you? Make sure you're safe in terms of condoms and so that you don't hurt yourself or your partner.

‌‌ How To Do It

  • The active partner lies down straight on the ground and places his calves on a chair. The passive partner then mounts the partner's legs, allowing penile insertion. Either partner can control the rhythmic motions.
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Squatters Rights/Nip and tongue gay sex position

‌‌The best gay sex position for couples who love oral stimulation, offering mutual pleasure. This one is for you. If you perform this position for very long and naturally are tired of squatting- you can rest each of your knees on either side of your partner's face. This will allow you to maintain your position for longer.

‌‌How To Do It

Nipples can be one erogenous zone for men. One partner lies down, and the other partner hovers and squats over him in a face-to-face position. The partner lying down grabs the other partner's nipples. The other partner lowers himself to the partner's mouth.

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I Can Fly/Superman

How To Do It‌‌

  • In this position, the active partner sits on a chair, keeping his body elongated. The other partner mounts away from him or towards him, balancing himself.
  • For face-to-face position, the passive partner leans backwards. The active partner grasps his wrists to offer balance. The passive partner now lifts his leg, trying to fly back as the other partner controls thrusting.
  • For a back-to-face position, the passive partner mounts on the partner and inserts his penis into himself. Then he leans forward and places his arms backwards so that the other partner can grasp his wrists. The passive partner now lifts the legs flying along, and his partner controls the rhythm.

Stand And Deliver - man to man sex position

‌‌Love dominance and raw passion? This may be the best gay sex pose for you and one of the best gay sex positions in gay couples who love BDSM and roleplays.

‌‌How To Do It

Here, the bottom bends the active partner over a chair and enjoys his way with him in a standing position.

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Rusty Trombone

‌‌Rusty Trombone is the best gay sex position in couples indulging in and loving oral sex. It also a very welcome extension and variation of the 69 positions we all love. This sexual position is excellent because it allows for immense pleasure and sexual stimulation for both parties.

‌‌How To Do It

In this sex position, the passive partner gets on his fours, and his partner gives him rimming (orally pleasuring the anus). The passive partner uses his free hand to masturbate his partner as he indulges in backdoor oral sex. Many gay men love this act due to the pleasure it offers.

Precaution: It is essential to clean yourself properly before this act as it is a high-risk position and can transfer serious diseases.

Cowboy Gay Sex Position

‌‌When a gay partner mounts his partner and rides them, this version is known as the cowboy. It is one of the best positions for couples new to gay sex.

‌‌This is one of the best gay sex positions as it offers control to the passive partner, allowing them to adjust to whatever feels good.

‌‌Tips: Tie your partner to the bed in the cowboy position for a bit of tease action.

‌‌Precautions: Be careful to avoid penile fracture.

‌‌Also read: Penile Yeast Infection: Causes, Types, Symptoms

Precaution To Be Followed For All Sex Positions

  • Always use a condom.
  • Both partners should be tested for sexually transmitted diseases.

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